The site offers useful video blogs relevant to women. I think a weapon that many not just men sadly fail to use in the war on lust is considering all human beings as members of their own family. Be prepared. This practice will remind you that everyone is truly equal in soul and worth.
Helping Women to Fight Lust Well
I believe for the humility it takes to be open here, some grace is released and our Father will show mercy continuously. Think about her like a friend rather than a lover. This means that if you see something that can cause lust, immediately find something else to look at. How do I know if I still have hope?